A while ago I was talking to a friend who was having trouble at his job. He felt overwhelmed with work and his manager wasn’t helping, and things were getting worse because of some massive disorganization within his company. He and I talked about his problems on a long car ride, and at one point he heaved a heavy sigh, leaned over the wheel, and said, “But, you know, it is what it is.”
Another time I was helping a different friend make some renovations on his basement. We were doing trim work and cutting two baseboard pieces that met in a corner. The pieces didn’t fit at all and looked so bad that no amount of caulk and paint would hide the gap. My friend looked at the woodwork, shrugged his shoulders, and said, “I’m not too worried about it. It is what it is.”
Then, two nights ago, I went down to my apartment basement to do some laundry Continue reading »